The inducement of this graduate study was to examin the role of the family in the way of dealing with the process of second separation-individuation their adolescents and the phenomenon of video games dependency. Our goal was to examine (1) the difference between groups of adolescents in style of dealing with the experience of separation in consideration of playing video games. The expectation was that adolescents who are addicted playing games will appear most likely greater difficulties to control experience of separation than the other groups of adolescent in the way of greater separation anxiety and negation as mechanism of defence. Also,they will most likely have greater levels of sybiotic needs, regresion and lower levels of mature independency. Our second goal was to examine the difference between the groups of adolescents in the quality of emotional relationships between them and both parent considering their addiction of playing video games. Expectation was that the group of adolescents defined as addicts will most likely show worse emotional relations between them and their parents. Concidering the quality of emotional relations we examined relevance between the differences on variables of fathers care and controle and mothers care and controle in relation with adolescence daily time playing video games. In order to examine assumptions and proved the hypothesis,we used: (1) Questionnaire of separation-individuation and (2) Questionnaire of emotional connections with both parents. The results confirm the difference between groups of adolescents in the field of negation, the level of symbiotic needs and infield of developing optimal independence. We've got the results wich shows us that the adolescents who are defined as adicts in relation with other two groups of adolescents are most likely to negate the experience of separation considering the difference in way of showing more symbiotic needs and had a significantly lower level of mature independency. Furthermore, the results also shows the difference in the emotional relations between both parents and adolescents defined as addicts.According to the tested degree of parental care (in these case fathers care) we got marginal level of fathers care in group of addict adolescents and for the degree of fathers control we got below-average levels of control. The results showed characteristically low value in area of maternal care and controle from wich we can conclude that the adolescents defined as addictive compare with the other two groups of adolescents are neglected in area of parental care and control.